Whippersnapper Needs Your Help!

[exwhyzee]

I am going to college in August and am very much looking forward to it. I am going to a major university that is known for having beautiful women, therefore I am very excited. Since I am posting in the "Mature Man" forum, I am hoping for advice from DJ's who have been there and done significant reflection on there times and growth in college. Typically through HS I have have basically not had girls be apart of my life, but as of recently I have been trying to change that. I think my best opportunity is ahead of me while going to a college where I know no one and can be the me who I want to be. Well I don't know if it is really that easy, to up and change as soon as soon as I step on that plane heading for college in August, so I am trying to go as much ground work for then now. I have access to the DJ Bible and Most of David Deangelo's stuff and I have been spending much time improving myself and building my confidence and owe much to this site for my gains. Basically what I am asking to all you older guys is What should I do that worked for you in college that made your sex life or just life in general better, also what do you wish you would have done in college that I should take advantage of. Any thoughts, reflections, or advice will be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

 

[LJC]

My first piece of advice would be that, as a freshman, don't expect people to be socially warm with you based on tactics and attitude. In other words, if you notice people being a little cold, it's not because you're doing anything wrong. Just don't expect the social welcome wagon full of chicks and invites to parties to knock on your door.

Be pro-active and as social as you can with other freshmen, especially in your dorm. Don't aim for women straight away. Just get a social circle going. You'll make friends with upper classmen (& women) soon enough.

Leave your dorm room door open if you're hanging out there. Let people see you're there. Give people the opportunity to peek in and say hi.

 

[So Many Ways]

Word, make freinds with those that live in your dorm. Also, hit up high traffic areas around your campus, such as the cafeteria during lunchtime. When I was in school, I made a lot of friends that way just by sitting somewhere and waiting for someone to sit down next to me. It's an easy way to bump into women.