When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
(1) That really is what crowes22 wrote... I did not edit his post in any way, nor did any of the other moderators.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nice lie job. Wanna try again?
Well who knows, but now he's engaged to a Sosuave chick, penkitten, who it seems is just as delusional as Gio is.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
dear godsgifttowomen, aka supergiaglo and 007
Nope. Any mod can very easily look at the thread history to see if any edits were done. If I'm lying, they can catch me very easily. Quite frankly, you're not worth lying to.
He'd do a better job than Gio would. Obviously the admin is just as incompetent as the mods, considering the number of times we the members have PMed him about Gio's antics.
Hmm... let me think about it.
Why would they expose you? Obviously, the admin is as much of a fascist as you are.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Running out of lies, I see.
Whatever you say.
excuse me , but i have never done anything to you metalfortress
Well, you're lying as well to protect Gio. Not that I blame you, since at least someone from sosuave should be engaged to someone who stands up for him no matter what, but it's still delusional.
Come on. Redeem yourself, because obviously you are not doing a very good job of winning honesty points.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Actually, it would prove my point perfectly.
I've told you as much as you deserve to know and have no need nor desire to be "redeemed".
You aren't the judge of what I deserve to know. Hell, you aren't even a good judge of who to ban and whose posts to delete.
We're both online right now. We both have our own computers, so no, we don't have to take turns posting here.Originally posted by h2o
but, I gotta say I just noticed something funny...penkitten said she's been with you, and didn't see you edit anything
at this point I noticed that every time Gio is online penkitten isn't, and when penkitten is online, Gio isn't. Has anyone ever seen these two online at the same time? well...you know what I'm alluding to, use your imagination
...but if penkitten is really real, then do you guys take turns using the computer to post here? :crackup:
ok, ok, I'll shut up now...enough fun for me
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.