gentleman193
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 16, 2003
- Messages
- 149
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 50
i signed up for a summer school class hoping to meet some interesting women to practice seduction techiques on. unfortunately, while a lot of women showed up, none of them are worth seducing. they are just not attractive. the question is, should i make friends with the cool ones?
on the plus side, i am sick of my current crowd, it might be fun to hang out with some new people, have an excuse to go do some new things.
but on the minus side, i know how this always goes: i want a friend, they want a boyfriend, if i'm not interested in being BF they take it personally, and even if they accept the ljbf deal they still have their hopes up and never introduce me to any other woman out of jealousy and i can't talk about other women. plus, having unattractive women around scares off the attractive ones, there's a risk you run into a date while hanging out with your gal pal, and to a large degree they are just not "there" as a friend.
this is, of course, the exact opposite of the younger days, when i was the one getting ljbf'd by attractive women who thought i was cool and interesting but not in "that way."
i think what i really want is my college buddies back so we can hit the gym at midnight, go on 12h road trips, get lost in the woods, wander drunk from the bars, fight over the same stupid hos, crash weird parties, and all that stupid fun shlt. i don't know where the fukk you find guys like that anymore. most are whipped, the others are alcies or workaholics or dressed up prisses or worse.
anyway, should i try being friends with the cool chicks or just blow them off and stick to supermarket and street corner pu's? also, where are 30 yr old guys here having a great time like the old days? i want to have some freakin fun again!
on the plus side, i am sick of my current crowd, it might be fun to hang out with some new people, have an excuse to go do some new things.
but on the minus side, i know how this always goes: i want a friend, they want a boyfriend, if i'm not interested in being BF they take it personally, and even if they accept the ljbf deal they still have their hopes up and never introduce me to any other woman out of jealousy and i can't talk about other women. plus, having unattractive women around scares off the attractive ones, there's a risk you run into a date while hanging out with your gal pal, and to a large degree they are just not "there" as a friend.
this is, of course, the exact opposite of the younger days, when i was the one getting ljbf'd by attractive women who thought i was cool and interesting but not in "that way."
i think what i really want is my college buddies back so we can hit the gym at midnight, go on 12h road trips, get lost in the woods, wander drunk from the bars, fight over the same stupid hos, crash weird parties, and all that stupid fun shlt. i don't know where the fukk you find guys like that anymore. most are whipped, the others are alcies or workaholics or dressed up prisses or worse.
anyway, should i try being friends with the cool chicks or just blow them off and stick to supermarket and street corner pu's? also, where are 30 yr old guys here having a great time like the old days? i want to have some freakin fun again!