"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whiche one???

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Asking a girl out in a first date situations!
ok if I got a girls phone number...she is obviously busy and i called her leave a msg...

1.)should i say "ill call you back tomorow"?
OR
2.) give her my phone number and call me back...
or
3.) leave no msg and call back tommorow?

or

4.) what do you suggest????
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Definitely number 2 - always put the ball in her court. It will really show you how interested she is by her actions, and gives you control. If you do one or three, you'll be down the path of wonderment and second guessing everything.
 
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leave a message saying you were thinking about you two getting together and she should call you.

Then think about the other girls on the cut list.
 
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ok i just did this 2night. I met the girl at a pet store and she bot a ferret

I leave a message

hey HB8 (me laughing, make sure you smile when you call) just checking up on you and your ferret, call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx

she called back 20 minutes later and we are getting coffee on wednesday
 
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Yeah it works great ! called HB8 and leave a msg and leave my number.....after minutes or so she called back,,,,hehehe!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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