"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whiche one???

BES

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Asking a girl out in a first date situations!
ok if I got a girls phone number...she is obviously busy and i called her leave a msg...

1.)should i say "ill call you back tomorow"?
OR
2.) give her my phone number and call me back...
or
3.) leave no msg and call back tommorow?

or

4.) what do you suggest????
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Definitely number 2 - always put the ball in her court. It will really show you how interested she is by her actions, and gives you control. If you do one or three, you'll be down the path of wonderment and second guessing everything.
 

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leave a message saying you were thinking about you two getting together and she should call you.

Then think about the other girls on the cut list.
 

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ok i just did this 2night. I met the girl at a pet store and she bot a ferret

I leave a message

hey HB8 (me laughing, make sure you smile when you call) just checking up on you and your ferret, call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx

she called back 20 minutes later and we are getting coffee on wednesday
 

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Yeah it works great ! called HB8 and leave a msg and leave my number.....after minutes or so she called back,,,,hehehe!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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