"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Whiche one???

BES

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Asking a girl out in a first date situations!
ok if I got a girls phone number...she is obviously busy and i called her leave a msg...

1.)should i say "ill call you back tomorow"?
OR
2.) give her my phone number and call me back...
or
3.) leave no msg and call back tommorow?

or

4.) what do you suggest????
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Definitely number 2 - always put the ball in her court. It will really show you how interested she is by her actions, and gives you control. If you do one or three, you'll be down the path of wonderment and second guessing everything.
 

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leave a message saying you were thinking about you two getting together and she should call you.

Then think about the other girls on the cut list.
 

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ok i just did this 2night. I met the girl at a pet store and she bot a ferret

I leave a message

hey HB8 (me laughing, make sure you smile when you call) just checking up on you and your ferret, call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx

she called back 20 minutes later and we are getting coffee on wednesday
 

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Yeah it works great ! called HB8 and leave a msg and leave my number.....after minutes or so she called back,,,,hehehe!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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