Which sounds better?

[studmuffinthesecond]

Hi, i was planning on asking this girl out but i cant make up ,my mind on were to take her for a first date. Its either

Dinner at a shopping plaza
Pros: We get to know each other more
Walk around after, hold hands
Strong pos. of kiss close
Cons: Might get kinda dull after a while

or.....

Bowling and quick dinner
Pros: action date good kino
lots of fun
pos.for neg hits
Cons: Might be to short of a date
less likely to hold hands kiss close....

what do you guys think? any feedback would be great thanks!

 

[jeffthechef]

first "dates" shouldn't be heavy and deep
you dont wnat her to know everything about you...so getting deep isn't good, IN THIS SENSE...of course physically deep is another case entirely

you;ll get as much kino as you and her allows...you create the amount of POTENTIAL kino...she'll decide how much of that potential you'll actually get

dont overanalyze the outing...dont prepare or think out how everythign will go
cause once something changes...it might fck up the rest of your mental script

just choose a place...and have fun...go into the outing without any preconceived notions/goals/plans...except. "HAVE FUN"

 

[CaptainJ]

Definitely the bowling.

 

[eaglez1177]

I couldnt agree more with what Jeff said

 

[colombiandude]

Yea i've come to realize that whenever i planned something out, it never worked out. sometimes the plans would even fall through. haha.