You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It is mainly because of the internationals from Europe and South America as well as girls fresh out of college wanting to move to the city. Stay in Manhattan or the yuppie parts of Brooklyn and Queens but stay far far far away from Long Island and Staten Island, those places have some of the ugliest women in the country.Haven't been to the west coast, but the baddest bitches I've seen were in NYC and Dallas.
Dallas has an international airport, right?It is mainly because of the internationals from Europe and South America as well as girls fresh out of college wanting to move to the city. Stay in Manhattan or the yuppie parts of Brooklyn and Queens but stay far far far away from Long Island and Staten Island, those places have some of the ugliest women in the country.
Almost all of the hot girls in the city are either international or recent college grads that just moved to the city.
Not sure man but you do have google, right?Dallas has an international airport, right?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I checked and it is. So the two cities with international airports I've visited have the hottest girls. Interesting.Not sure man but you do have google, right?