You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LolEast coast or west coast?
East coast has so many more cities though with women of so many types and women in LA are really, really, really stuck up. Probably the most vain women in the country.Good thread, I love discussions where we can ultimately talk about which cities have the best women as location is important and I think this can help countless men on here.
I have a tough time deciding between the two but on average, I would say the west coast has the better looking women. Arizona, California, Colorado, Utah (very underrated), and Nevada are loaded with hot fit girls.
The east coast has less sexy women but I feel like Florida carries the entire coast because Florida girls are some of the sexiest in the nation without question.
NYC is alright but the city is mainly what it is because the hottest women from other states move here and you have a surplus of hot foreign girls.
I say the west coast is better when it comes to women, especially in regards to look. As for personality, we're talking American women here, have fun finding one that isn't egotistical and narcissistic.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Judging from this list, I can assume you have been to Wyoming. Just wondering, but why exactly go over there since there is literally nothing but tumbleweeds?Neither east nor west is best. As someone who has been to 46 states (including every continental state except NE and ND) Texas has the most beautiful women (namely Austin and Dallas, not Houston so much). I've lived in MA, NH, NJ, FL, NY and GA (in that order) on the East. I've lived in WA, OR and CA on the West. I've lived in TX, OK, IA and OH in the Midwest. Texas has the best women. Florida was the worst. Georgia has a lot but they are all spoiled. New York was pretentious (dated Russian girl), Spokane was clicky (dated girl from IL). Don't go to Man Jose (dated nobody). Oh, and in Tulsa fat women will growl if you come within their peripheral vision.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What do you mean by Georgia women are spoiled?Neither east nor west is best. As someone who has been to 46 states (including every continental state except NE and ND) Texas has the most beautiful women (namely Austin and Dallas, not Houston so much). I've lived in MA, NH, NJ, FL, NY and GA (in that order) on the East. I've lived in WA, OR and CA on the West. I've lived in TX, OK, IA and OH in the Midwest. Texas has the best women. Florida was the worst. Georgia has a lot but they are all spoiled. New York was pretentious (dated Russian girl), Spokane was clicky (dated girl from IL). Don't go to Man Jose (dated nobody). Oh, and in Tulsa fat women will growl if you come within their peripheral vision.
While in Texas the hot women are single and pining for a date, in Georgia they are equally pretty and sweet but living with their boyfriend.What do you mean by Georgia women are spoiled?
Wyoming was by far the most scenic state I ever drove through (I-90 via Montana en route to New Jersey shore).Judging from this list, I can assume you have been to Wyoming. Just wondering, but why exactly go over there since there is literally nothing but tumbleweeds?
I guess it's just a stereotype then. I was just wondering because I know it's got the smallest population of all the states in the US.Wyoming was by far the most scenic state I ever drove through (I-90 via Montana en route to New Jersey shore).
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LA women are nothing compared to NYC women. The tri-state area produces the most narcissistic, crazy, psycho, and spoiled women on the planet.East coast has so many more cities though with women of so many types and women in LA are really, really, really stuck up. Probably the most vain women in the country.
No just no.While in Texas the hot women are single and pining for a date, in Georgia they are equally pretty and sweet but living with their boyfriend.
Why? Lots of white girls in Atlanta are more than open to other races. Unless you go out into the boonies and more rural areas in Georgia, you might find the ones who aren't quite so open.If you like white girls, stay far away from Georgia.
That isn't really the point of my comment, they just aren't that good looking but since you bring it up, I found that most of the young and fit white girls in the A town were fresh out of college sorority girls that chased after "southern" guys (usually frat boys fresh out of college).Why? Lots of white girls in Atlanta are more than open to other races. Unless you go out into the boonies and more rural areas in Georgia, you might find the ones who aren't quite so open.
Fratty dudebro white guys do well just about anywhere in the USA, even in NYC and California.It depends on the guy. If you are some fratty white guy then the southeast will be your hot spot and you will probably hate a place like California and NYC. However, somebody like me does horrible anglo centered cities like Nashville and Austin, but well in cosmopolitan areas like Atlanta and Los Angeles.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.