That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
rhodey said:DJ Dan taught me how to Dress. Uncle T taught me my parking lot game. JP taught me how to take great pictures and be positive.:rock:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah , the best way to learn to PULL girls is from field. You can learn all the theory but you can't get women with that.Solomon said:The best teaching? as DTP once put, The field is King, I learned the best going out and experince things, then decideing for myself which works or doesn't
peace
Daddy The Pimp said:Yeah , the best way to learn to PULL girls is from field. You can learn all the theory but you can't get women with that.
RSD + FIELD = FVCKING GLORY.
Also , i think gunwitch is great too from what i've heard. I heard that its all about projecting sexuality.
Did Tdot teach Uncle T to shave off that balding muff on top of his head? It's not a good look. But I could see where he could be mistaken for a "Boss" parking lot attendant.Solomon said:Oh man you also forgetting Tdot thought me to get my hair cut every week, and Kbot thought me how to dance, and Marcus introduced me to patron
:yes: :rockon:
rhodey said:Did Tdot teach Uncle T to shave off that balding muff on top of his head? It's not a good look. But I could see where he could be mistaken for a "Boss" parking lot attendant.
Felicia thinks it's cool you had two black ex imaginary girlfriendsJust stay positive and dont ask girls of they are cold.
Cheers!.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.