"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Which PUA's Teachings make the Most Sense to you ?

Peterpack

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And which ones make the LEAST Sense to you ?

Out of all of the 'name' PUA with PUA products out there, basically who do you follow and who do you think is ridiculous ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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None really. Most of them have too many gimmicks in them (Mystery Method and anything NLP are the worst offenders.) Men should concentrate on making themselves attractive, not applying tricks.

David DeAngelo has the right idea with a minimal of fluff and filler. He gets to the point and doesn't mix in "techniques", with the exception of ****y and funny.
 

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I don't like any of the PUA stuff. Even if their techniques work those guys are still lame. All they care about is getting women to raise their ego and sense of self-worth.

as for their content, I'd say just take whatever you can use from each method and reject that which is useless.
 

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I read stuff by Interceptor and Rollo. All of the self proclaimed PUAs are ridiculous.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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As others mentioned , Real Social Dynamics is the best company out there to learn seduction in my opinion.

They don't focus on how to GAME girls. They focus on how to make yourself attractive so the girls will like you. Also , if ur looking for canned and scripted material , RSD is not the place. Give it a chance and you will love it.
 

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The best teaching? as DTP once put, The field is King, I learned the best going out and experince things, then decideing for myself which works or doesn't

peace
 

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Leykis, Rollo, Str8up, Pook, DJDamage and the great one himself...

T!ttyman whose username was this symbol ( . )( . )
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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best pua is Paul Janka, he's not even necessarily a PUA just a natural. He's one to emulate if you already have some kind of success with ladies or know how to communicate, not really for beginners. I make references to him so much that you'd probably think I'm getting paid to advertise his product.

Sinn is really good as well. He's sort of like Janka but a little less natural and is more material based. He's really good with banter, story telling, and a master at setting frames.

Captain jack is who you want to study if you want to go to nightclubs and get laid. He does use a lot of material though. He does a really good job of setting sexual frames and sticks to the outline really well. Open, attract, qualify, m to f attraction, f to m attraction, close.

Read up on those three guys, study their work, study a lot of banter/teasing lines and work them into your game, perhaps take a hip hop class or watch dance videos and try to duplicate the moves, learn to improvise on the fly and you'll be getting laid like a rock star.

G/L
 

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DJ Dan taught me how to Dress. Uncle T taught me my parking lot game. JP taught me how to take great pictures and be positive.:rock:
 

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It depends on what stage of your advancement as a man you are at.

I have not read a "pick-up" book by an "artist" in a long time... im well past that stage of my development...

I have an obssession with reading new books and listening to any stuff concerning relationships, $ex, and passing women's "tests" (not pick-up tests; relationship tests)....

Relationships:
Franco
Joseph W South
Jay Julio (cool guy with women)
David Clare
Johnny Soprano
David Deida

Sex
Daniel Rose
David Shade

Passing Tests:
I forget his name, but "everything out of her mouth is a test" was great!

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i honestly can't read more than 10 pages of a "pick-up" book before thinking it sounds just like the rest of them.... all that basic stuff - you can get from here for free.
 

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rhodey said:
DJ Dan taught me how to Dress. Uncle T taught me my parking lot game. JP taught me how to take great pictures and be positive.:rock:

Oh man you also forgetting Tdot thought me to get my hair cut every week, and Kbot thought me how to dance, and Marcus introduced me to patron

:rolleyes: :yes: :rockon:
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Gunwitch Method.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Solomon said:
The best teaching? as DTP once put, The field is King, I learned the best going out and experince things, then decideing for myself which works or doesn't

peace
Yeah , the best way to learn to PULL girls is from field. You can learn all the theory but you can't get women with that.

RSD + FIELD = FVCKING GLORY.

Also , i think gunwitch is great too from what i've heard. I heard that its all about projecting sexuality.
 

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RSD all the way. There are no tricks or methods to it. Its all about not giving a shyt about what peopla think, and doing what comes naturally. We all have a PUA deep inside us. If we didnt, we wouldnt be here. RSD tells you the importance of letting it out.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Yeah , the best way to learn to PULL girls is from field. You can learn all the theory but you can't get women with that.

RSD + FIELD = FVCKING GLORY.

Also , i think gunwitch is great too from what i've heard. I heard that its all about projecting sexuality.

I ain't agaisnt RSD, some of the best gamers on this site are from RSD, I like the mindset those guys have, but I can proudly say I didn't need RSD even though some RSD cat's helped me :D you know who you are cough cough

*goes and looks at RSD*
 

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Solomon said:
Oh man you also forgetting Tdot thought me to get my hair cut every week, and Kbot thought me how to dance, and Marcus introduced me to patron

:rolleyes: :yes: :rockon:
Did Tdot teach Uncle T to shave off that balding muff on top of his head? It's not a good look. But I could see where he could be mistaken for a "Boss" parking lot attendant.

Felicia thinks it's cool you had two black ex imaginary girlfriends:up: Just stay positive and dont ask girls of they are cold.

Cheers!.
 

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Otb= Rhodey

rhodey said:
Did Tdot teach Uncle T to shave off that balding muff on top of his head? It's not a good look. But I could see where he could be mistaken for a "Boss" parking lot attendant.

Felicia thinks it's cool you had two black ex imaginary girlfriends:up: Just stay positive and dont ask girls of they are cold.

Cheers!.

Naw actually Tdot is younger then Uncle T, on top of that Tdot's got a head full of hair!!

whats "of they are cold"?

OTB/Rhodey where is that field report you said you were gonna post with pictures showing me how "you get it in?" I mean do you even go out at all? or do you just like hugging my scortum?

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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