"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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which programming language?

Caesar20

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a little help from you CS majors and others please.
which prog language would be good for me to learn? im a beginner (just about, i knew a little fortran, JS but not anymore), i tried learning sth in the past but never had the motivation to.
im a ME major, we don't need much of that (except for SDK development for 3d modellers).

i'd need sth that can do graphics (would be ok) and that is beginner-oriented (logical).
java, .net? sth else?

and sorry for my "english" i haven't used it in a while.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would suggest Java. You don't have to worry so much about memory management and it is well structured. I learned C++ first in school and then Java. I wish it was the other way around. Also, Java has a lot of practical user-end applications.
 

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I agree. I started with c/c++ an then Java. Java will hold your interest longer at the beginning because you can start creating GUIs very quickly thanks to the standard swing and awt libraries.

I would recommend you get the book "The Object of Java" by David Riley.

It takes a backward approach by starting out teaching object oriented programming and working back to actual coding.

This approach helps ALOT to get good at OOP.
 

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mr_elor said:
Nah I find Java too fiddly, C++ is the way to go. Most companies tend to use C/C++ (especially games companies so I'm a little biased) and I personally find it easier and more convenient to use. For me Java's only practical for mobile phones and online games etc.

I strongly disagree. I am actively job searching (last year of university) and a large amount of companies are looking for some form of Java. As much or more than C++. I am looking through a wide category of industries...not so much gaming companies though. So it may be true in that industry.


Oh and I should add that my brother works at a software company that does workforce management stuff. They use virtually nothing but Java.
 

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If you learn c/c++ You pretty much know java and vice versa.

After a semester of c++ I was able to code pretty complicated object-oriented programs using java with only a book for reference for some minor syntax and library differences.

I do think going from java OOP to c++ OOP might be a little more difficult.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I love C++, don't mind Java but disagree with you all.

I would recommend for a begginer C# or VB.Net [C# is a better one, though in .Net they are both OO]. Download the MS .Net 2005 Express editions for free from Microsofts website [or #Develop 2.0].

Learn the basics and make stuff that works, then move on the more nitty-gritty like C++. IMHO C#/VB.Net will get you up to speed faster than the others.


Most companies tend to use C/C++ (especially games companies so I'm a little biased)
This is true for games, given C++'s performance advantages over other languages plus the large tool base already available for the games market in this language, but not true for general purpose enterprises. There is a lot of C++ lagacy applications out there, but also a large market of Java.

Personally I find no reason to use C++ anymore, all our new stuff is .Net, and legacy applications are being ported to C# [speed of developepment/maintainability/platform consistency/etc].
 

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C/C++ and/or Java are the way to go. Languages like FORTRAN have their place, I guess, but don't bother ponsing around becoming a FORTRAN or BASIC guru. C, C++ and Java are the true workhorse languages :)

-shaun
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Riptastic said:
int=2;
while (i != 1) {
System.out.println("Shut the hell up A$$HOLE");
}
That won't compile :rolleyes:


Definatly go with C#, .NET is a very good platform to work on. Theres XNA, Managed DirectX, OpenGL and SDL if you want to do graphics.
 

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hm, what about python?
i've read some good stuff about it, esp. about beginner-friendliness and good oop.

any comments?
 

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Caesar20 said:
hm, what about python?
i've read some good stuff about it, esp. about beginner-friendliness and good oop.

any comments?
Good to learn how to program, but don't expect to do any big applications in it.
 

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I say go for assembly language :p.

In uni I learnt Java and the C++. For some reason I thought C++ was easier than Java.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any good programming knows several languages. I agree with C++/Java - you will be able to get a real development job with those. But they are not really fun languages. For fun, I mess around with Objective C/Cocoa, and Ruby.
 
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