Ok, this has been the deal-
At the end of the school year, this girl and i started to hang out-
she had a bf of 4 years, and so forth- and we hit it off right then and there..
got close to kissing, i told her a beautiful girl shouldn't get this close, she turned her head and said im not beautiful..
we told each other we liked each other.. and so forth... and then started talking more and more
i told her to stay wit hher bf, well.... in some time. later she dumped him
2 months went by i saw her, went to her house spent the weekend together - she dumped her bf, and he found out about me and started whining like crazy...
We talk about us a lot and then it went weird... she still hung out with her ex bf, and when i wasn't around she would take him with her... just b/c they lived closed and she wanted to be friends- it pissed me off, but im not the type of guy to say who she can and can not hang out - i figured he will ruin it himself..
well the other day, she told me she is confused and scared how quickly we got close, and she is scared and doubting it will be long - i reassured her that i think it will, but i can't promise her nothing- b/c who knows what will happen...
she told me she needs time to clear her head after her long 4 year relationship...
i like the girl and love the girl, she tells me how wonderful i am, and hwo great i am, how close we got, and how i helped her out through a lot, told me she never felt this way about someone els... but yet her ex bf is around and from what she tells me he makes her feel guilty about the whole thing..
people tell her she needs time to herself... i agree..... but i think withouth her ex....
but i will never tell her that
i am not oging to whine or ***** abuot it, nor tell her im upset about it - i just tell her dont worry about me, just make urself happy...
of course i did say - i might make some sacrifices wiating and might make me nto like you and she tells me then dont make any....
tells me i can see other peopel cuz she doesnt want to hold me back
she is not the ***** type who will hook up ith a lot of people
she told me she hasnt hooked up with anyone-
so what do i do... my friends say wait for her, but dont seem needy let her come to me
and they all say when she is ready she will come to me.....
is this what i should do - when i think this is a girl im going to marry?
or should i just look at the signs and say she is backing out- nicely and going back with him,,, i dont think that is the case
in her profile tells me the bestest,
under neath it says, we sit here in shade b/c a man planted it a long time ago
meaning the shade is her past - and we are underneathe it till she is ready to cut down the tree..
what ya gents thinks?
i told her when she told me that she was unsure about breaking up with her ex bf, go ahead and go back to him and find out if thats what she wants -
At the end of the school year, this girl and i started to hang out-
she had a bf of 4 years, and so forth- and we hit it off right then and there..
got close to kissing, i told her a beautiful girl shouldn't get this close, she turned her head and said im not beautiful..
we told each other we liked each other.. and so forth... and then started talking more and more
i told her to stay wit hher bf, well.... in some time. later she dumped him
2 months went by i saw her, went to her house spent the weekend together - she dumped her bf, and he found out about me and started whining like crazy...
We talk about us a lot and then it went weird... she still hung out with her ex bf, and when i wasn't around she would take him with her... just b/c they lived closed and she wanted to be friends- it pissed me off, but im not the type of guy to say who she can and can not hang out - i figured he will ruin it himself..
well the other day, she told me she is confused and scared how quickly we got close, and she is scared and doubting it will be long - i reassured her that i think it will, but i can't promise her nothing- b/c who knows what will happen...
she told me she needs time to clear her head after her long 4 year relationship...
i like the girl and love the girl, she tells me how wonderful i am, and hwo great i am, how close we got, and how i helped her out through a lot, told me she never felt this way about someone els... but yet her ex bf is around and from what she tells me he makes her feel guilty about the whole thing..
people tell her she needs time to herself... i agree..... but i think withouth her ex....
but i will never tell her that
i am not oging to whine or ***** abuot it, nor tell her im upset about it - i just tell her dont worry about me, just make urself happy...
of course i did say - i might make some sacrifices wiating and might make me nto like you and she tells me then dont make any....
tells me i can see other peopel cuz she doesnt want to hold me back
she is not the ***** type who will hook up ith a lot of people
she told me she hasnt hooked up with anyone-
so what do i do... my friends say wait for her, but dont seem needy let her come to me
and they all say when she is ready she will come to me.....
is this what i should do - when i think this is a girl im going to marry?
or should i just look at the signs and say she is backing out- nicely and going back with him,,, i dont think that is the case
in her profile tells me the bestest,
under neath it says, we sit here in shade b/c a man planted it a long time ago
meaning the shade is her past - and we are underneathe it till she is ready to cut down the tree..
what ya gents thinks?
i told her when she told me that she was unsure about breaking up with her ex bf, go ahead and go back to him and find out if thats what she wants -
