"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Which one of you did this? lol

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I was talking to a Bumble girl I accidentally right swiped. HB6-ish. 34yo. Nurse.

She told me she hardly ever right swipes but gets plenty of matches. But there are also tons of creepy dudes on there. So I asked her what they did to come across as creepy:

1. Send dihk pics. Happens on a regular basis.
2. One asked to touch her boob on a first date dinner. When she denied him, he got up and left her with the bill.
3. One guy found her address online and showed up unannounced at her house.

Where do these retards come from........SoSuave rejects? :eek:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not me lol I only send d|ck picks to women I have already fvcked, like if we are both wanting some and cant be together at a particular time. When I am talking to chicks online who I have not yet met and the convo drifts sexual I have a picture of my azz with am emoji happy face through it that I send.. It's PG rated or could even pass for G rated because you can't see a thing but you know it's my bare azz. Then I tell them "I'm not quite sure if I like you enough yet to send you the unsesored one". It gets the convo nice and heated.
 

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Guys act a lot crazier en masse than we think, but I don't really believe her necessarily.

Last date I went with on OLD she told me how she matches with better looking guys than me but "we have a connection." She rant literally every PUA tactic on me, overtly, basically in alphabetical order.

How can you guys stand this stuff.
I believe the story about the d|ck pics as I have heard that from dozens and dozens of women since I originally did OLD the first time back in 2004.

If a chick ever told me she matched with better looking guys, I wouldn't put up with that:

Lame Chick: I match with better looking guys than you.
LL: Always good to have options. I don't want to be the one to stop you. Good luck. (delete, block, next)....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I hear a lot of stories from women I've dated about online dating (even Tinder and Bumble) being filled with married guys who are looking for some side action, or for a third wheel. This is, of course, in the over 30 demographic which I target. Apparently some of the guys try to hide the fact that they are married and others are up-front about it.
 

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I was talking to a Bumble girl I accidentally right swiped. HB6-ish. 34yo. Nurse.

She told me she hardly ever right swipes but gets plenty of matches. But there are also tons of creepy dudes on there. So I asked her what they did to come across as creepy:

1. Send dihk pics. Happens on a regular basis.
2. One asked to touch her boob on a first date dinner. When she denied him, he got up and left her with the bill.
3. One guy found her address online and showed up unannounced at her house.

Where do these retards come from........SoSuave rejects? :eek:
34?

Why listen to what cratered smv and her entitlement has to say? She's well over a decade past her expiration date.
 

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I hear a lot of stories from women I've dated about online dating (even Tinder and Bumble) being filled with married guys who are looking for some side action, or for a third wheel. This is, of course, in the over 30 demographic which I target. Apparently some of the guys try to hide the fact that they are married and others are up-front about it.
Not doing it right son.

I aim at the early side of 20. Mid or late side for Netflix and chill. 30 is Far too much baby rabies and near metapause for my liking.

biological clock ticking doesn't get my d hard. Or does expired food sound appetizing.
 

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I’ve sent a d*ck pic before first date. But only because she kept asking me to!

Have her on snapc now, she sometimes randomly sends me naughty vids. But any time I offer to meet for real she gets really OTT (“I need you inside me”...errr wtf? Bit much) so I don’t bother now.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she gets really OTT (“I need you inside me”...errr wtf? Bit much)
Do you mean to say you just like this woman as a friend or what? Seems like one with a high sexual activity desire so either handle it or leave it to someone else LOL
 

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Do you mean to say you just like this woman as a friend or what? Seems like one with a high sexual activity desire so either handle it or leave it to someone else LOL
I just don't really trust a woman that's so keen to f*ck me. Usually because she's a basket full of crazy or looking to get pregnant or something.
 

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34?

Why listen to what cratered smv and her entitlement has to say? She's well over a decade past her expiration date.
But if she’s hot, I’d keep her around as plate material or FWB. Most women in 30’s are down for no bull**** and ****ery. Hang out, make out, bang. But they’ll def hit you way earlier with the exclusive talk
 

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OLD is a MESS of horny men. If you dare let the convo drift into any REMOTE sexual innuendo they pounce asap with genetallia pics. I think they think "the convo has steered twoards making spicy salsa... Cooking.. spicy.... I'll send her the spice she seems to be asking for, albeit indirectly....here honey, how's this for a spicy mouthwatering pepper?"

It can get unruly, esp for the chicks that don't understand that men are sex driven creatures. You can't introduce ANY innuendo if you don't want it to go there.

BUT if you don't introduce innuendo, 90% drop. Understanding this, and determine your standards, makes all that okay
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I was talking to a Bumble girl I accidentally right swiped. HB6-ish. 34yo. Nurse.

She told me she hardly ever right swipes but gets plenty of matches. But there are also tons of creepy dudes on there. So I asked her what they did to come across as creepy:

1. Send dihk pics. Happens on a regular basis.
2. One asked to touch her boob on a first date dinner. When she denied him, he got up and left her with the bill.
3. One guy found her address online and showed up unannounced at her house.

Where do these retards come from........SoSuave rejects? :eek:
I have had a lot of women mention guys sending dik pics even before meeting. I usually respond with “really?!” I don’t send out **** pics until the second date”. They always laugh and you can notice the sexual tension already starting to build.
 

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But if she’s hot, I’d keep her around as plate material or FWB. Most women in 30’s are down for no bull**** and ****ery. Hang out, make out, bang. But they’ll def hit you way earlier with the exclusive talk
It's cratered smv.

CNN mate, you're not doing it right.

Dating cratered smv, single moms, women with baby fever or other low hanging fruit is 'the mating call of the loser.' This isn't pickup nor DJ lifestyle. It's a mercy kill. It's a lay up. It's the water buffalo cheered off the cliff.

This is what skews the dating market. It is why the dating market is a cesspool of absolute garbage. This is coming from a fella that has been doing cold approach pickup for seven years. I repeat, GARBAGE!

I think a lot of women are delusional but, the ripple effect of boosting cratered smv is only a amplifier of stupidity.
 

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Not doing it right son.

I aim at the early side of 20. Mid or late side for Netflix and chill. 30 is Far too much baby rabies and near metapause for my liking.
Logically yes. But not realistic.

No hot 23 year old is going with a 30+ year old guy, no matter how much money he is. They stick with their own age, looking for novelty, excitement, experience. It’s not 1970s. Anything more than 5 years older for the woman not going to work.

Maybe you are a slick talker, good looker. Rest of the men in the world not. Prince Harry married cratered smv, and he has more money, experience, height and looks than the men in the world. But Sosuave members who don’t have jobs and smoke weed and live in basements are supposed to smash 22 year old models and throw away cratered smv like Kleenex?

Im in 30s have a lot more assets than a lot of people. Cannot get a 26 year old. Maybe my choice of weed during Netflix. o_O
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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