"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Which one of these shoes is best...

Soprano

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Alright I've never bought anything aside from boots and sneakers before lol... Any help would be really appreciated...

I found a few shoes I like, eliminated the ones that don't fit, and am left with these.... Which of these do you think the best with jeans? Khakis?

i'm not really talkin them skin tight kinda jeans, but nice ones like Diesel etc.

1. http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/2359905/c/22300/reviewcount/15.html
2. http://www.timberland.com/product/i...&fpricesort=priceDescending&parentPage=search / http://www.timberland.com/product/i...&fpricesort=priceDescending&parentPage=search
3. http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/2277678/c/103/g/men/w/2.html
4. http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/3155548/c/19.html
5. http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/7176673/c/10001/g/men/w/2.html
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Those are all pretty ugly. I don't like square toeboxes though, so nothing in that style agrees with me. If I had to pick one, I'd go with the Maddens.

If you're looking for a shoe to wear with more fitted jeans, look for a pointier toe. And don't wear wide bootcut jeans with any of those shoes, if you get them.
 

Soprano

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i was looking at some kenneth cole shoes i liked but they didnt have them in my size :(
 

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deer stags are the slickest
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Deerstags, definitely. If not those, then the Rockports. I recently bought a dark brown pair of Axcess shoes that are the same style as those Deerstags and they're great as dress shoes yet work really well with jeans.
 

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You can wear #2 with more different clothes since they're black. Its harder to mix the tan color with others. They also have the best style.
 

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I guess the deer stags are the best looking, but I'd still spring for a pair of Kenith Coles.
 

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I dont really like any of those, I hate that slip on kinda elastic multi purpose boot-shoe kinda look, its something I see my dad in....
 
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