"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Which one is worse?

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Is it worse to be LJBF'd or to have a girl tell you that she "wouldnt date you if you were the last guy on earth"?
I was told this yesterday by a girl who I had liked and talked to for a long time and I was kinda of hurt (and amused). I dont think of myself as an ***hole although some people might think I come off as arrogant and a little stubborn. Im not bad looking either as I had a 7.8 in hotornot.com (down from a 9 at the beginning). I dont think she hates me but by her statement i believe its clear shes not especially in love with me. So now Im wondering if I still have more chances with her than if she had LJBF'd me.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Normally, its folly to take what a girl says directly.

In this case, I think its safe to say she really means it.

Lol.
 
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n00bPimp said:
Im not bad looking either as I had a 7.8 in hotornot.com (down from a 9 at the beginning).
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Never, and I mean never, take notice of hotornot.com ratings. I'm on 8.5 after 4 weeks and I know that's a load of crap. Real life 3's get 6's, real life 7's get 9's, it's a joke of a system, overrated central.

Anyway, personally I think it's better to be LJBF'd than told she wouldn't go near you if you were the last on earth. Either way they are irrelevent, because in both situations you just move on to the next target.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Reading between th lines, I have to say it appears you talked with her for TOO long, and she went to a woman's last resort -- straightforward rejection -- to get rid of you.

Rule #1: It's not your interest in her that matters, it's her interest in you.
 
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Bonhomme said:
Reading between th lines, I have to say it appears you talked with her for TOO long, and she went to a woman's last resort -- straightforward rejection -- to get rid of you.

Rule #1: It's not your interest in her that matters, it's her interest in you.
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Yep.:yes:
 
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