"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Which one is worse?

n00bPimp

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Is it worse to be LJBF'd or to have a girl tell you that she "wouldnt date you if you were the last guy on earth"?
I was told this yesterday by a girl who I had liked and talked to for a long time and I was kinda of hurt (and amused). I dont think of myself as an ***hole although some people might think I come off as arrogant and a little stubborn. Im not bad looking either as I had a 7.8 in hotornot.com (down from a 9 at the beginning). I dont think she hates me but by her statement i believe its clear shes not especially in love with me. So now Im wondering if I still have more chances with her than if she had LJBF'd me.
Thanx guys.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ace of Flames

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Normally, its folly to take what a girl says directly.

In this case, I think its safe to say she really means it.

Lol.
 

KillaCam

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n00bPimp said:
Im not bad looking either as I had a 7.8 in hotornot.com (down from a 9 at the beginning).
Never, and I mean never, take notice of hotornot.com ratings. I'm on 8.5 after 4 weeks and I know that's a load of crap. Real life 3's get 6's, real life 7's get 9's, it's a joke of a system, overrated central.

Anyway, personally I think it's better to be LJBF'd than told she wouldn't go near you if you were the last on earth. Either way they are irrelevent, because in both situations you just move on to the next target.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Reading between th lines, I have to say it appears you talked with her for TOO long, and she went to a woman's last resort -- straightforward rejection -- to get rid of you.

Rule #1: It's not your interest in her that matters, it's her interest in you.
 

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Bonhomme said:
Reading between th lines, I have to say it appears you talked with her for TOO long, and she went to a woman's last resort -- straightforward rejection -- to get rid of you.

Rule #1: It's not your interest in her that matters, it's her interest in you.
Yep.:yes:
 
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