"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Which of these 3 girls is the hottest?

Pickupmilitia

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Guys check out the 3 girls on this site

www.regionalhotties.com


Which one do you find the most attractive? I think this is a good way to gauge whether looks are really subjective or not. Personally I find the girl on the far right to be the hottest. When I asked about this previously I think a lot of people found she wasn't attractive.... but I'd say she is an 8 solid

Which one do you all prefer???
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Miles28

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Girl on the right is great!! Would say a 9. Can't believe people would think she wasn't attractive.
 

Scion

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The one on the right is the hottest, I'd say a 9. She kinda looks like a girl I know. But I also think the one on the left is hot too, probably a 8.

One thing I find funny is the question "do you kiss on the first date?". Think a better question would be "do you fvck on the first date?".
 

Neon Owl

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The 1 on the left definately.

The other 2 look way too fake.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Miles28

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Am stunned at the responses!!! Thought quite clearly the girl on the right was in a much higher league than the other two. the one in the middle is rough as boots, I think we can agree on that.

guess tastes really do differ
 

Joe Stud

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here's the order:
left, middle, right.

but even the top one (left) is only about 7 or 7.5
 

Diaforetikos

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The pictures suck. I need a video of them just doin basic stuff. That's why I hate facebook and myspace pics. They are lies. Videos only for me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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scribblec

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lol if u think the girl on the right is a 9!

i would say in this order
girl on right :7
girl on left : 6.5
girl in middle : 4.5
 

bish0p

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Yeah, none of them are that attractive to me...even more, I can't decide who looks better between the left and right, but the middle one is the least attractive of the three.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mikeyb

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One on the left (8), then the one on the right (7), and last the one in the middle (5). But they all look fake and I wouldn't want to be there in the morning when their "real faces" are back.
 

Drum&Bass

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I think they all look nice.

Left: Good

Middle: Good

Right: Good
 

Rogue

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None "wow" me, but if I'd have to pick, middle.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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