“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Which Movie/TV Show helped you in getting better?

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don't learn pickup from shows or movies...the character is as good or bad at seduction as the writer wants them to be.

Why do you think Adam Sandler always has hot wives and girlfriends in his films?
 

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This might have been discussed previously..share your tips please
Christian Troy from Nip&Tuck.

When I started talking to women like that it worked wonderfully especially with hot ones.

No particular pickup line or strategy, just being brutally honest especially when it came of their behaviour and desires often going full Ahole and uncaring of the outcome.
 

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I've picked up "cues" from more than can be listed on one page. As others have already stated, that's all they can really bring us. Beyond that,;be prepared to read some books, attend seminars, etc etc

+(Most importantly)

Practice what you've learned
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Wants movies where the main character wants his money, that will wake a man up.
 
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Fred Savage's 12 y/o character in The Wonder Years. He never understood girls, and I could relate to that.
Fred Savage's Kevin character in The Wonder Years would have been considered to have had one-itis for Winnie.

That show was set in the years 1968-1973 and the characters were in junior high and high school. They were Boomers too and being a beta male, young male Boomer wasn't as bad as being a beta male as a Millennial trying to date after 2000.

There's not much positive that a male could take away from that show about seduction. It was about as blue pill as it gets.

Why do you think Adam Sandler always has hot wives and girlfriends in his films?
I think the Billy Madison character could have gotten some women. Billy Madison was supposed to be the 20 something party animal son of a Top 1% business executive. A good looking guy with money can seduce on family wealth alone. There are examples of that.

The Robbie Hart character in Wedding Singer would not have done well in the mating market as a washed up rock n' roll singer who had to resort to singing at weddings. It took place in 1985 and Hart would have been pushing 30 then, so he would have been a Boomer. Boomers had an easier mating market but even that guy isn't going to get laid too much in the easier Boomer era. I think that movie is mostly blue pill. Robbie Hart getting dumped by his fiancé earlier in the movie because he was now longer a blossoming rock star was the most realistic thing about that movie from a market market point of view.

Christian Troy from Nip&Tuck.
He's more realistic as someone who could seduce. This is a better example.
 

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When it comes to humor

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SuperBad (seth's humor is similar to mine works on some girls doesn't work on most)

Also Hitch(the movie is cliche ass but this one scene is worth it alone)....Back when Will Smith was a smooth lad and not the cuck we know now, this scene is the best PUA scene ever.


^^^There will be seldom times where you could run a pick up that perfect, the only time I ever pulled something like this off is when I had my first 3 some
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Probably Captain Jack Sparrow:

- He’s got a sense of humor
- Arrogant or confident but in a light hearted way.
- got good leadership abilities not just with women but with his pirate camrades
- Not pvssy whipped and always going after his mission or purpose
 

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Fred Savage's Kevin character in The Wonder Years would have been considered to have had one-itis for Winnie.

That show was set in the years 1968-1973 and the characters were in junior high and high school. They were Boomers too and being a beta male, young male Boomer wasn't as bad as being a beta male as a Millennial trying to date after 2000.

There's not much positive that a male could take away from that show about seduction. It was about as blue pill as it gets.
There was one episode where he stomped over to her house, knocked on the door, and when she answered, he demanded to know if she liked him or not. "I don't know" is what she said. And he realized she was telling the truth, and that you can't make someone explain themselves when they don't understand their own self in the first place.

I think that is relevant to the infinite supply of "what is this girl thinking?" threads on sosuave. Maybe she doesn't know, and if she doesn't then you're not going to.
 

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I don't think there was ever a single movie/show but I was lucky to grow up in the 80's and a lot of good shows came out of that era.

Dukes of Hazzard, Fall Guy, Miami Vice, Dallas, James Bond, and anything with John Wayne definitely had a big influence in my attitude towards women.

The main characters in these shows were all pretty masculine. They took action. They handled life on their own terms. They weren't afraid. They didn't over analyze. They took risks. They didn't back down from challenges. They were true to themselves. These men weren't followers and didn't just fall in line. All of these traits women find attractive.

These shows always had good looking women in them too.
 
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A lot of flicks from The 1930s are insightful
, despite the constraints on what you could saw or show

If you can overlook the sappy teen soapishness of the entire enterprise, the first two seasons of The Vampire Diaries
boasted some surprisingly impressive sexual tension

Others have already mentioned Hank Moody/Californication. Just leave out the self-loathing and the addictive tendencies

Hell, we can actually learn a great deal from The Girl Boss flicks Hollywood has traded in from '17-the present... Just do the exact opposite of everything the male characters in those tales do
 

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I've always said you want to be a combo of Han Solo and Christian Grey.
 

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Why do you think Adam Sandler always has hot wives and girlfriends in his films?
Ha! I've always noticed that.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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