"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Which Martial Arts would be most suitable for me...

Triple T

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So I'm interested in getting back to martial arts. I've done about 4 years of TKD and I've gotten to a 1st degree Black Belt.

However, TKD is not enough in my growing and dangerous city.
So I'm looking for a new style.

I'm looking for:
-A street based style, "Dirty Fighting". Not an art based around sport.
-Not just self defence, but more of an offensive art.
-Something that teaches weapon techniques. (both using and disarming weapons)
-And something that incorporates both ground & striker styles. Not just one of them.

Basically someting that would be effective in real life situations and fights.

So, any suggestions?
Also, supply your reasoning.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You've just described Krav Maga perfectly. There's an open thread running right now on Krav Maga.
 

Triple T

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Yea just read it and it sounds great!

Only problem is there aren't many KM studios in my City. I've found only one so far, and it is on the other side of the city for me and charges way too much. ($140 a month for begginners and about a 45 min-1 hour drive just to get there)

I'll keep searching around though. What would be the martial art closest to Krav Maga?
 

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Triple T said:
Yea just read it and it sounds great!

Only problem is there aren't many KM studios in my City. I've found only one so far, and it is on the other side of the city for me and charges way too much. ($140 a month for begginners and about a 45 min-1 hour drive just to get there)

I'll keep searching around though. What would be the martial art closest to Krav Maga?
There really is none, available to civilians anyway. The next closest thing in the USA would be MCMAP, Marine Corp Martial Arts Program, but unless you know someone from the Marines special forces to teach you or join the Marines yourself, I don't think there's any way to learn it.
 

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Alright, what type of MA would you suggest that is closest to KM, and is available to civilians?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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