"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I'm interested in getting back to martial arts. I've done about 4 years of TKD and I've gotten to a 1st degree Black Belt.

However, TKD is not enough in my growing and dangerous city.
So I'm looking for a new style.

I'm looking for:
-A street based style, "Dirty Fighting". Not an art based around sport.
-Not just self defence, but more of an offensive art.
-Something that teaches weapon techniques. (both using and disarming weapons)
-And something that incorporates both ground & striker styles. Not just one of them.

Basically someting that would be effective in real life situations and fights.

So, any suggestions?
Also, supply your reasoning.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You've just described Krav Maga perfectly. There's an open thread running right now on Krav Maga.
 

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Yea just read it and it sounds great!

Only problem is there aren't many KM studios in my City. I've found only one so far, and it is on the other side of the city for me and charges way too much. ($140 a month for begginners and about a 45 min-1 hour drive just to get there)

I'll keep searching around though. What would be the martial art closest to Krav Maga?
 

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Triple T said:
Yea just read it and it sounds great!

Only problem is there aren't many KM studios in my City. I've found only one so far, and it is on the other side of the city for me and charges way too much. ($140 a month for begginners and about a 45 min-1 hour drive just to get there)

I'll keep searching around though. What would be the martial art closest to Krav Maga?
There really is none, available to civilians anyway. The next closest thing in the USA would be MCMAP, Marine Corp Martial Arts Program, but unless you know someone from the Marines special forces to teach you or join the Marines yourself, I don't think there's any way to learn it.
 

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Alright, what type of MA would you suggest that is closest to KM, and is available to civilians?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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