"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Which Martial Arts would be most suitable for me...

Triple T

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So I'm interested in getting back to martial arts. I've done about 4 years of TKD and I've gotten to a 1st degree Black Belt.

However, TKD is not enough in my growing and dangerous city.
So I'm looking for a new style.

I'm looking for:
-A street based style, "Dirty Fighting". Not an art based around sport.
-Not just self defence, but more of an offensive art.
-Something that teaches weapon techniques. (both using and disarming weapons)
-And something that incorporates both ground & striker styles. Not just one of them.

Basically someting that would be effective in real life situations and fights.

So, any suggestions?
Also, supply your reasoning.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You've just described Krav Maga perfectly. There's an open thread running right now on Krav Maga.
 

Triple T

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Yea just read it and it sounds great!

Only problem is there aren't many KM studios in my City. I've found only one so far, and it is on the other side of the city for me and charges way too much. ($140 a month for begginners and about a 45 min-1 hour drive just to get there)

I'll keep searching around though. What would be the martial art closest to Krav Maga?
 

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Triple T said:
Yea just read it and it sounds great!

Only problem is there aren't many KM studios in my City. I've found only one so far, and it is on the other side of the city for me and charges way too much. ($140 a month for begginners and about a 45 min-1 hour drive just to get there)

I'll keep searching around though. What would be the martial art closest to Krav Maga?
There really is none, available to civilians anyway. The next closest thing in the USA would be MCMAP, Marine Corp Martial Arts Program, but unless you know someone from the Marines special forces to teach you or join the Marines yourself, I don't think there's any way to learn it.
 

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Alright, what type of MA would you suggest that is closest to KM, and is available to civilians?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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