"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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which male cologne/perfume gets more female attention?

pipe007

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Hey guys
I'm trying to get my attractiveness together in different areas of my life and right now i'm writting this, thinking which are some of the best colognes out there that have gotten more women to compliment you feel more attraction (amplifier)??

I already own dolce &gabana and goultier for men, but it seems that its gotten old already

any comments from personal experience?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fragrances smell different on different people, but one that is sure to get the women sniffing is Issey Miyake [inhale deeply}, oh yes!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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pipe007

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interesting replies, I'm going to check those names out and pick the one I like better, I might pick Acqua di Gio
 

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like someone said - they smell differently on different people...

my go to scent is: Gucci Envy

but a girl i mess with bought it for someone else in her life (which made me raise an eyebrow cuz it seemed like she was trying to find me in him haha)... and she said it stinks on him (but she can't get enough of how it smells on me)...

so you need to really experiment... which could mean spending a lot on colognes before you find the right one for your bodily scent...
 

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Burberry Britt for men, and hollister for me. Never miss with those. And if you are tryin to change up your style, definately go for Hollister, Abercrombie, Ruehl, Express, etc. for clothing.

Austin
 

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Sometimes you can mix two and create an intriguing new smell that is unique. I put on one spritz of Aqua di Gio and one of CK Summer.
 

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old spice body spray and a sweet smelling cologne go extremely well together
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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L'eau d'Issey Pour Homme
Milessime Imperial
Escada Magnetism
Givenchy Pi

Some less common but well recieved colognes. They are all much more expensive than the colognes listed thus far, though...
 

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The best received ones for me so far are:

Rive Gauche PH
Burberry London
Czech and Speake No. 88
Czech and Speake Oxford and Cambridge

These are the four with the most responses from women. My advice would be to wear whatever you think smells best. Cologne is for your enjoyment that you share with others.
 

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I get complimented on my Fahrenheit (Dior). It's also pretty rare because most guys in their 20s use the same perfumes by Armani, Gaultier, etc. Get something that makes you stand out.

Power by Kenzo is also pretty good if you're looking for a more powerful scent.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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It depends on the woman. Sure, there could be a certin smell most women will perfer. But, I say.. just wear what you think smells good.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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They do it's called

Christian Dior. The number 1 womens favorite b/c it says status
 
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