"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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which male cologne/perfume gets more female attention?

pipe007

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Hey guys
I'm trying to get my attractiveness together in different areas of my life and right now i'm writting this, thinking which are some of the best colognes out there that have gotten more women to compliment you feel more attraction (amplifier)??

I already own dolce &gabana and goultier for men, but it seems that its gotten old already

any comments from personal experience?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fragrances smell different on different people, but one that is sure to get the women sniffing is Issey Miyake [inhale deeply}, oh yes!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pipe007

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interesting replies, I'm going to check those names out and pick the one I like better, I might pick Acqua di Gio
 

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like someone said - they smell differently on different people...

my go to scent is: Gucci Envy

but a girl i mess with bought it for someone else in her life (which made me raise an eyebrow cuz it seemed like she was trying to find me in him haha)... and she said it stinks on him (but she can't get enough of how it smells on me)...

so you need to really experiment... which could mean spending a lot on colognes before you find the right one for your bodily scent...
 

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Burberry Britt for men, and hollister for me. Never miss with those. And if you are tryin to change up your style, definately go for Hollister, Abercrombie, Ruehl, Express, etc. for clothing.

Austin
 

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Sometimes you can mix two and create an intriguing new smell that is unique. I put on one spritz of Aqua di Gio and one of CK Summer.
 

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old spice body spray and a sweet smelling cologne go extremely well together
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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L'eau d'Issey Pour Homme
Milessime Imperial
Escada Magnetism
Givenchy Pi

Some less common but well recieved colognes. They are all much more expensive than the colognes listed thus far, though...
 

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The best received ones for me so far are:

Rive Gauche PH
Burberry London
Czech and Speake No. 88
Czech and Speake Oxford and Cambridge

These are the four with the most responses from women. My advice would be to wear whatever you think smells best. Cologne is for your enjoyment that you share with others.
 

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I get complimented on my Fahrenheit (Dior). It's also pretty rare because most guys in their 20s use the same perfumes by Armani, Gaultier, etc. Get something that makes you stand out.

Power by Kenzo is also pretty good if you're looking for a more powerful scent.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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It depends on the woman. Sure, there could be a certin smell most women will perfer. But, I say.. just wear what you think smells good.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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They do it's called

Christian Dior. The number 1 womens favorite b/c it says status
 
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