"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Which is worse to live in?

El Payaso

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The South or the Midwest?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you're asking about the worst places for women, there's a lot of fatties living in the south and midwest. The south is the fat Capital of the world.
 

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The Midwest.

South has Florida, tons of hotties and beaches.

Yes there are fatties, but CA has tons of ugly women as well
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Prolly Midwest if it isn't Chicago or St. Louis. MAYALL, it's Wisconsin specifically that's the fat capital of the world. It's not hard to find 300 pounders over there. They're everywhere man. Everywhere.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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depends on the city? I would choose Atlanta over most midwestern cities except for Chicago. However, I would choose bum **** ohio over any city or town in the dixie south states.
 

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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
Prolly Midwest if it isn't Chicago or St. Louis. MAYALL, it's Wisconsin specifically that's the fat capital of the world. It's not hard to find 300 pounders over there. They're everywhere man. Everywhere.
Can't argue with you about Wisconsin. In fact, Wisconsin is the ugly capital of the world. If you look at the south as a whole, they have the fattest unhealthiest people around. The whole country is getting fatter.
 

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skinnyguy said:
The Midwest.

South has Florida, tons of hotties and beaches.

Yes there are fatties, but CA has tons of ugly women as well
Yes! South Florida has a lot of cute & petite Latin mamis and Jewish girls.

The Midwest is awful, lots of overweight ogres.
 
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