You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Can't argue with you about Wisconsin. In fact, Wisconsin is the ugly capital of the world. If you look at the south as a whole, they have the fattest unhealthiest people around. The whole country is getting fatter.ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:Prolly Midwest if it isn't Chicago or St. Louis. MAYALL, it's Wisconsin specifically that's the fat capital of the world. It's not hard to find 300 pounders over there. They're everywhere man. Everywhere.
Yes! South Florida has a lot of cute & petite Latin mamis and Jewish girls.skinnyguy said:The Midwest.
South has Florida, tons of hotties and beaches.
Yes there are fatties, but CA has tons of ugly women as well