"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Which driver's facing 21 years in prison? Drunk, rich & white or sober, poor & black

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The justice system is about money, more so than black or white. However what the police do is more often dictated by black vs white. This is nothing new.
 

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I'm perfectly OK with this if the picture I'm seeing is accurate. Here's my deal; while I believe it's incredibly irresponsible to drive while impaired, I'm what some call a results oriented person. In other words I don't care why you do what you do, I just care about what you do.

In this case the man charged seems to have been the one who was at fault, sober or not, then he made the real error of being a hit and run driver.

He's in hot water and that's as it should be.


I didn't see anywhere except in the writers innuendos where the girl actually did anything really wrong.


While we're on the subject, while people who drive drunk, don't wear seat belts and otherwise do dumb things annoy the heck out of me I'm not sure laws against 'precursors' like this are really fair. Drug addicts sometimes steal, therefore drugs should be illegal. That's broken logic, and while I also abstain from illegal substances I have doubts about the usefulness or fairness of those laws as well.
 

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this is a shame, but I don't need this as a racial thread.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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