"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Which driver's facing 21 years in prison? Drunk, rich & white or sober, poor & black

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The justice system is about money, more so than black or white. However what the police do is more often dictated by black vs white. This is nothing new.
 

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I'm perfectly OK with this if the picture I'm seeing is accurate. Here's my deal; while I believe it's incredibly irresponsible to drive while impaired, I'm what some call a results oriented person. In other words I don't care why you do what you do, I just care about what you do.

In this case the man charged seems to have been the one who was at fault, sober or not, then he made the real error of being a hit and run driver.

He's in hot water and that's as it should be.


I didn't see anywhere except in the writers innuendos where the girl actually did anything really wrong.


While we're on the subject, while people who drive drunk, don't wear seat belts and otherwise do dumb things annoy the heck out of me I'm not sure laws against 'precursors' like this are really fair. Drug addicts sometimes steal, therefore drugs should be illegal. That's broken logic, and while I also abstain from illegal substances I have doubts about the usefulness or fairness of those laws as well.
 

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this is a shame, but I don't need this as a racial thread.
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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