"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where'd I go wrong? (Text game with a suicide girl..)

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SG: do u always give ur number out to random girls on the internet
Scars: only the cute ones. :) hi SG
SG: Haha. I could be some man. with fakee pictures lol! hi scars!
Scars: I could also be 40. So I guess were both risk takers here eh? :)
SG: thatss a cute pick up line
Scars: Is it working? :)
SG: idk. haha i dont usually take to boys who live outta state
Scars: Vegas is like a 2 and a half hour drive, im there all the time.
SG: Haha. Hmm well im a lesbian
Scars: That's awesome you know a better one is "I already have a boyfriend". Haha.
SG: Naww. im just kidding
Scars: I know you were, i think my excuse sounds more legit haha
SG: well maybe if i was making up excuses
Scars: I hope not. So how am i doing? ENough to swoon u into hanging our for a weekend or two?
SG: hmmm.. iddk. im very pickky
Scars: Dont be a brat! just because youre cute doesnt mean you always have to be so high maintenance. :)
SG: Excuse me. Ive had my heart broken. && im cautious. doesnt mean im a brat or high maintance. u just went down points
Scars: Oh i didnt know we were on a point system here. How could I earn them back? :)
SG: idk that last remark was harsh
Scars: Awh well if I could id give you a big huge hug to make up for it. You'll always be my favorite high maintenance girl<3
SG: okay. well i have work tomorrow && a photoshoot. so imma go to sleep.
Scars: Okay.
SG: goodnight.
Scars: gnite.

The "okay. im going to bed" type **** through me off.. I was expecting her to retort something back and I was gonna reply with "this is coming from a girl with a point system.. you're so cute" or something like that. but never got the chance. i was trying to build up interest a little bit more, but I feel like I kinda got shot down. but im not so sure. advice, help, tips?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yama600rr

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damn... you did all that through texting? that was a bad move on your part. that sounded like a whole convo! you should of talked to her on the phone. why didnt you? that was kinda gay. pick up the damn phone next time and talk. texting is reserve for short little, goodnite... or something along those lines.
 

Scars

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I gave her my number, she texted me first. Texting is my forte. Don't hate.
 
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Scars said:
I gave her my number, she texted me first. Texting is my forte. Don't hate.

You mean this was on a cell phone not a chat? Way too much texting no wonder she passed out.
 

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My Name is Somebody said:
You mean this was on a cell phone not a chat? Way too much texting no wonder she passed out.
Lol.. she got square fingertips now...:crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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this is basically two people being fake and meaningless

no offense, we all do it

maybe use the phone?
 
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