"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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intrextrovert

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So I think I've got attraction down for now, and have a few girls that I can prob go for. But I dunno where to bring it. Most of them I don't chill with their social circles often besides school, so i can't just be chillin and have an opportunity fall in my lap. I live in a semi-small town, with not much in the way of entertainment besides weed and booze. There's stuff to do a bit away, but I don't have a car/license as I'm 15, 16 in December.

So, ideas I got.
-Get girl and girls friends to chill with me and a friend at his place/movie, find a way to isolate, one im leaning toward.
-Jus invite her over, problem is what to do? Done this before and ended up hooking up while watching a movie, but could be mad wierd, prob not gonna do this unless she drops a hint of something she likes we could do over here
-Go to movies, problem is as I've said no car! So my mother would probably have to drive or we'd meet up there. First could be mad awkward for the drive, second could not work out.

So what do you guys do to create an opportunity to close? In the past opportunites have pretty much fallen into my lap without active action on my part, besides that one where I invited her to my place for a movie.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Five To One

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Iv always favored having the girl come to your own house. But only if the parents give you enough privacy. I thought my parents gave me enough privacy until my dad walked in my room without knocking... now I dont have girls over often.

I just like how its your home turf and you will have the "home" advantage. You have a couch right there and also your bedroom if you feel the need.


I always just said "hey I rented (any new movie that just came out), you should come over and watch it with me."
It was simple and sounds innocent enough to most girls.
 

intrextrovert

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Thanks for the help 5-1

In case it helps anyone, I've thought of something I can do. Ice skating! Now just to find out what rink is closest, organize getting there, and of course asking someone.
 
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