"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where would you like to be in 5 years?

Boner da Stoner

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I would like to have lived my life to it's full advantage using human ancestral knowledge to its fullest
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I want to be doing whatever it is one does with a M.Phil in Peace Studies and outdressing everyone while doing so. In a united Ireland.
 

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Originally posted by Laser
2010 that will be. Where do you see yourself 5 years to this day.

Ill be 24 by then. Hopefully ill be in the middle of a committed relationship by then, which could lead to marriage later on. Physically i should easily have the complete body by then, so i should be looking extra pimp. I also should be out of college by then and looking to start on some of the plans i have in my mind right now.

Overall, id like to have more respect from everyone around me.

Where would you like to be in 5 years?
Why do you ask?

As for me, I have absolutely no idea of what's going to be happening ONE year from now, much less five. It's a terrible and scary feeling. I don't even know if I'm going to be living in the same town.


Ben
 

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Ignore whatever I said before...

In 3 years I want to be a millionaire. Partly in debt, I dont care.

So..

1- Be a millionaire.
2- Kick ass convertible, with
3- A kick ass house/apartment to have it in.
4- Having had met MJ.
 

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I see myself dating a celebrity, i will be a celebrity too. I will be so happy, i will buy sosuave and turn it into porn website and you will enjoy it!!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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