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where was your last successful cold approachthat was not in a bar, club, party??

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where was your last successful cold approachthat was not in a bar, club, party? and by SUCCESSFUL i mean you got an ltr,fb, or lay out of it.

I'm just wondering because I want to practice my cold approach game outside of those usual places.
 

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A - Apartment pool.
B - Work.
C- Work.
D - House party.
E - Halloween party.
F - House party.
G - Waitress.
H - Blind date.
I - Pizza delivery girl.
J - Girl on Ferry.
K - Girl from airport during hotel layover.
L - House party.
M - Friend of friend.
N. - Hitchhiker.
 

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BPH said:
Are you trying to learn something from this? Like should I elaborate?
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What I'm really trying to do is find the most common places for successful cold approaching.

you can post your field report from that cold approach as a good example to learn from
 
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August 2010 - Saw her at CVS, then again at apartment pool.
September 2008 - Met her at work.
October 2006 - Met her at work.
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What kind of Work? Was she a coworker/customer/client?
 
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CostaDeSol said:
What I'm really trying to do is find the most common places for successful cold approaching.

you can post your field report from that cold approach as a good example to learn from
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Well the mall is alright, but that's more for people my age and younger. But this girl was alone and dressed up exceptionally nice. Looked sexy and was sitting by herself at one of the tables in the food court so I went by to say hello.

Granted it was about a month from the time I number closed her soon after meeting, but what happened happened.
 
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Well the mall is alright, but that's more for people my age and younger.
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Thats what I thought, especially since the last time I went, the place was filled with jailbait.

I just realized though, that i can go around noon on weekdays, when most of the under 18 crowd should be in school.
 
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I got a lot of pvssy at my old job, but that was bar work, so I don't know if that counts? Cold approaches were covered by serving drinks, its a must for any of you younger DJ's.
Helps to build confidence, cos a lot of thes chicks will hit on you, and you notice signals more easily from her ones that will be susceptible to a cheeky smile/ comment/ number close.
 

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Cold approaches were covered by serving drinks
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That my friend is like shooting fish in a barrel. Being in a position like club security
DJ (the guy playing tunes) or bartender is almost like having the puzzy handed to you.

Aspiring DJ's take note.
Take a class and get a Saturday night shift at a hot club
 
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That my friend is like shooting fish in a barrel. Being in a position like club security
DJ (the guy playing tunes) or bartender is almost like having the puzzy handed to you.

Aspiring DJ's take note.
Take a class and get a Saturday night shift at a hot club
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Is there an age requirement or something? I'd love to do this at college.
 
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I would imagine 21 since you're serving alcohol. But it could vary by state
and 18 might still work if you were just doing security/DJ.

I almost forgot to mention, the guy at the door likely gets a ton of azz too
If you're the guy that lets them in the club to begin with women will often
throw uhmm ..."favors" your way if you smell what the rock is cookin'
 
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