"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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where to talk with women?

mercure

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Hi,

There is lot of post on how to deal with women but very few on where/how to meet women.
From my experience, talking with a girl is already 50% of the job done.

I have trouble to talk to girl in the street, or in pub ...
Maybe it is fear of rejection, maybe i cannot assume socially my sex drive.
Just feel weird to talk to a girl i do not know just like that because she's hot.

But once i have been able to establish contact with her (about anything really), i am very good.
i know what i am worth, i am intellectually sharp and she can feel it.
My problem is more to meet the girl than to seduce her.

Do you have any idea where i could talk to girl about anything really?
When i was student, it was easy. But since i am working, i have seen opportunities reduced dramatically.
In clubs, pubs, cinema, people do not talk to each others and there's not many hot girls at my work ..:crackup:

Mercure
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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paraguayandj

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Malls, clubs, dance lessons, bookstores, parties, pubs, beach, etc. Dude there's girls everywhere just go up to them and say hi
 
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