"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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where to talk with women?

mercure

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Hi,

There is lot of post on how to deal with women but very few on where/how to meet women.
From my experience, talking with a girl is already 50% of the job done.

I have trouble to talk to girl in the street, or in pub ...
Maybe it is fear of rejection, maybe i cannot assume socially my sex drive.
Just feel weird to talk to a girl i do not know just like that because she's hot.

But once i have been able to establish contact with her (about anything really), i am very good.
i know what i am worth, i am intellectually sharp and she can feel it.
My problem is more to meet the girl than to seduce her.

Do you have any idea where i could talk to girl about anything really?
When i was student, it was easy. But since i am working, i have seen opportunities reduced dramatically.
In clubs, pubs, cinema, people do not talk to each others and there's not many hot girls at my work ..:crackup:

Mercure
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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paraguayandj

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Malls, clubs, dance lessons, bookstores, parties, pubs, beach, etc. Dude there's girls everywhere just go up to them and say hi
 
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