"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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where to talk with women?

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mercure

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Hi,

There is lot of post on how to deal with women but very few on where/how to meet women.
From my experience, talking with a girl is already 50% of the job done.

I have trouble to talk to girl in the street, or in pub ...
Maybe it is fear of rejection, maybe i cannot assume socially my sex drive.
Just feel weird to talk to a girl i do not know just like that because she's hot.

But once i have been able to establish contact with her (about anything really), i am very good.
i know what i am worth, i am intellectually sharp and she can feel it.
My problem is more to meet the girl than to seduce her.

Do you have any idea where i could talk to girl about anything really?
When i was student, it was easy. But since i am working, i have seen opportunities reduced dramatically.
In clubs, pubs, cinema, people do not talk to each others and there's not many hot girls at my work ..:crackup:

Mercure
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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paraguayandj

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Malls, clubs, dance lessons, bookstores, parties, pubs, beach, etc. Dude there's girls everywhere just go up to them and say hi
 
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