"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where to take this girl?

TheWanderer

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So, I'm prolly gonna go out again with that girl I talked about in my other post this weekend.......2nd date. Now, I didn't kiss her last time, but I'm pretty sure she's feelin me. Why? Well, I haven't talked to her much but this is what she's said after our date that leads me to beleive I'm in:

- Me: We should go out again this weekend, think about when dave (me) time's gonna be
her: well, if it was up to me, it'd be dave time right now...

- her: my day was ok
me: only ok? how come?
her: cus i didnt see you today....

lol, well, either I'm in or she's the biggest tease ever.

So, I'm wondering about what to do with her this weekend. If everything goes as I plan, we should have from 3-11 or 12 to chill, so I was thinking about going to a waterpark first, good place to be playful and get heavy kino.

But then, well, I wanna go somewhere things can happen.....my basement is great since I have a big couch and a big tv, but knowing my parents, they'll come downstairs constantly to check on me. So, do any of you guys have any ideas of where we could go or what to do so things start happening? Because there's no way Im letting this date go by without making out with her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jerky Boi

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Waterpark's a great place. I wish I had one in my town, haha. Maybe her place after?
 

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Miniputt. You can "show" her how to putt.
 

TheWanderer

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Prolly won't happen, good idea, but we went mini golfing last week. Anyways, I'll be leaving home to pick her up in about an hour. Wooh, I'm pumped, ready to get my game on, lol. Anyways, I'm thinking ice cream, Ice Skating, dinner, and then we'll come to my place and watch a movie (parents won't be home, hell yeah!).

Anyways fellas, wish me luck, I'm going for a kiss today, so hopefully it'll turn out good and we'll get even farther......here I go baby!
 

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good luck
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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