Hey guys. I posted the convo with this girl in my journal. We went to texting and she seems dtf but th eyes a few issues:
1. She said she’s out of town for the week
2. the convo kind of just died (see pic below)
mom wondering where and how to take things in this spot. Thanks
Take this constructively but your text game needs serious improvement
The message
"so sex on the first date is cool" - it reads like your asking her to do you a favour by having sex on the first date this is no good
Infact the entire conversation is way too logical chicks outside of relationship will rarely if ever respond well to logical conversation
There is a huge and important difference between being direct and logical
examples -
Direct - Just shut up and come over here
Logical - Hey i think its a good idea if we meet and figure out if we have chemistry and connection so that we can have sex
Direct - What position shall i put you in first
Logical - Sexual chemistry is really important for me too , so yes we should take time to understand what each other likes
are you starting to catch my drift ......?
As for reengaging ..... pick a day you want her to come over
" i am free today after 6 come over"
anything other than a "yes il see you then" you just drop her