"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
where to take a girl that is not too costly
- Thread starter gherald
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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f***! even the typical ukraine can afford to take a girl for an espresso or tea. if you can't afford to purchase some hot tea i think you probably have deeper issues than girls.Luke Skywalker said:Go to a coffee shop, bring a bottle of Spring water from home, ask her to also bring a bottle if she's thirsty.
ask yourselves...what kind of girl wants someone who can't buy her anything?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Go to town,gherald said:hehe...im usually on a boke and all...the topic
Mangos 1.20
Plastic Knives and Forks 80c
A lemon or lime 70c
Go to beach.
Squeeze the lime over the mango and feed it to her at the beach, while watching the sunset, she will be all over you, women love that lovey dovey romantic shi!t if you do it right, but remember you don't want to come off as an emotional tampon, so be a little C&F during the date, nothing too much.
There, a date and it cost you 2.70.
Cheap enough?
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Someone who is willing to sleep with Luke Skywalker!sparky0000 said:ask yourselves...what kind of girl wants someone who can't buy her anything?