"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
where to take a girl that is not too costly
- Thread starter gherald
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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f***! even the typical ukraine can afford to take a girl for an espresso or tea. if you can't afford to purchase some hot tea i think you probably have deeper issues than girls.Luke Skywalker said:Go to a coffee shop, bring a bottle of Spring water from home, ask her to also bring a bottle if she's thirsty.
ask yourselves...what kind of girl wants someone who can't buy her anything?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Go to town,gherald said:hehe...im usually on a boke and all...the topic
Mangos 1.20
Plastic Knives and Forks 80c
A lemon or lime 70c
Go to beach.
Squeeze the lime over the mango and feed it to her at the beach, while watching the sunset, she will be all over you, women love that lovey dovey romantic shi!t if you do it right, but remember you don't want to come off as an emotional tampon, so be a little C&F during the date, nothing too much.
There, a date and it cost you 2.70.
Cheap enough?
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Someone who is willing to sleep with Luke Skywalker!sparky0000 said:ask yourselves...what kind of girl wants someone who can't buy her anything?