"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Where to start?

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Hi everyone,

I am new to this, so I wanted to ask for your help. There is so much information on this site that I am not sure where to start. Can someone give me a link or two (from this site) that I can start reading? Maybe you can even give me the link to the articles that helped you most. I know that I am asking for too much (having to hunt down the links can be a *****) and I thank you for your help.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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With a warning.

This place is not as "cool" and non-mental threatening as it may seem. Use whatever you find here with great care. It may do you more damage then good.

And i'm not kidding around.

G'luck!
 
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Ojete

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You should start reading some tips in the main page of this site, and then the newbie sticky post in this forum, the one with "All members read, especially the new ones" or something like that. Good luck ;)
 
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Originally posted by Titus
This place is not as "cool" and non-mental threatening as it may seem. Use whatever you find here with great care. It may do you more damage then good.
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Yeah - it sucks you in and never lets go. Run while you can!

RUN FORREST, RUN!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MindOverMatter

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I'd start by reading the main articles/tips on the website, plus the doc love / redfieild articles. those are a fountain of useful knowledge. most of them aren't technical, but they do a really good job of introducing a newcomer to the DJ philosophies. After you're done with those, I'd read the bible, lots of technical stuff there.
 
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Titus

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Originally posted by Ice Cold
Yeah - it sucks you in and never lets go. Run while you can!

RUN FORREST, RUN!
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I am NOT kidding.

If you don't know what i am talking about even after 1422 posts, tough luck.
 
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MetalFortress

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Originally posted by shahgols
Hi everyone,

I am new to this, so I wanted to ask for your help. There is so much information on this site that I am not sure where to start. Can someone give me a link or two (from this site) that I can start reading? Maybe you can even give me the link to the articles that helped you most. I know that I am asking for too much (having to hunt down the links can be a *****) and I thank you for your help.
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Find the link to the post "Be a Man!" by Pook.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah. You only need this site if youre NOT getting women. If youre trying to be something youre not, unplug youre modem.

Here the central idea is change, but not all change is good.

You may just want to live and not analyse. Did youre dad need an internet site to hook up your mom?
 
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Originally posted by AMF
Did youre dad need an internet site to hook up your mom?
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what are you sayin about his mom? :D
 
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There seems to be a bunch of real smartasses up here. With no actual knowledge of what they are dealing with here on this site (and NO, i do not mean me in any way :) )

Do what you wish, boys. I've said what i've said.
 
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