"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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S-House

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I need some help fellas. I've been browsing this site for about a month now and I've learned a lot. I would like to work on improving myself with women and people in general.

My problem is there is so much info on this site, but I'm having a hard time laying out a logical plan through which to improve myself. I am finding that I am trying to do everything and end up accomplishing nothing.

In other words, I would like to make an attempt at organizing my education so that I can develop myself from the ground up.

So are there any good publications with step by step help or any good websites (besides sosuave of course) to check out. Thanks guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Read the DJ Bible. The WHOLE thing. Reflect on it, and also reflect on who you are as person. Use your natural tendencies to enhance this new-found knowledge. Also, use these tendencies to buttress areas in which you feel you are deficient. There is a lot of information out there. YOUR job is to figure out what will work for YOU. None of the strategies/insights presented in the DJ Bible will work unless you are true to YOURSELF and you get your head right. Work on your inner game and the rest will fall into place. Respect on taking steps in the right direction to positively change your life.
 
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In my book I give an easy step by step system - 9 easy steps to be exact. Its a fun easy read that should get you started - red some sample chapters at the link below.

Aloha
 
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