Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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S-House

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I need some help fellas. I've been browsing this site for about a month now and I've learned a lot. I would like to work on improving myself with women and people in general.

My problem is there is so much info on this site, but I'm having a hard time laying out a logical plan through which to improve myself. I am finding that I am trying to do everything and end up accomplishing nothing.

In other words, I would like to make an attempt at organizing my education so that I can develop myself from the ground up.

So are there any good publications with step by step help or any good websites (besides sosuave of course) to check out. Thanks guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Magma

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Read the DJ Bible. The WHOLE thing. Reflect on it, and also reflect on who you are as person. Use your natural tendencies to enhance this new-found knowledge. Also, use these tendencies to buttress areas in which you feel you are deficient. There is a lot of information out there. YOUR job is to figure out what will work for YOU. None of the strategies/insights presented in the DJ Bible will work unless you are true to YOURSELF and you get your head right. Work on your inner game and the rest will fall into place. Respect on taking steps in the right direction to positively change your life.
 

Dongfu

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In my book I give an easy step by step system - 9 easy steps to be exact. Its a fun easy read that should get you started - red some sample chapters at the link below.

Aloha
 
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