"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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S-House

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I need some help fellas. I've been browsing this site for about a month now and I've learned a lot. I would like to work on improving myself with women and people in general.

My problem is there is so much info on this site, but I'm having a hard time laying out a logical plan through which to improve myself. I am finding that I am trying to do everything and end up accomplishing nothing.

In other words, I would like to make an attempt at organizing my education so that I can develop myself from the ground up.

So are there any good publications with step by step help or any good websites (besides sosuave of course) to check out. Thanks guys.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Magma

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Read the DJ Bible. The WHOLE thing. Reflect on it, and also reflect on who you are as person. Use your natural tendencies to enhance this new-found knowledge. Also, use these tendencies to buttress areas in which you feel you are deficient. There is a lot of information out there. YOUR job is to figure out what will work for YOU. None of the strategies/insights presented in the DJ Bible will work unless you are true to YOURSELF and you get your head right. Work on your inner game and the rest will fall into place. Respect on taking steps in the right direction to positively change your life.
 

Dongfu

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In my book I give an easy step by step system - 9 easy steps to be exact. Its a fun easy read that should get you started - red some sample chapters at the link below.

Aloha
 
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