"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Where to start? (mentally)

PersonalJesus

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I've begun on this journey of improving myself (and success with girls), but the first question is where do I start with my head? if you get what i mean. I've already started working on, working on clothes and looking good, getting hobbies. But where do I start with my mindsets? How do champions think? Where do I start?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You have to TRUELY understand that you are unique and unlike anyone else. You have to understand that there is no one person like you,God(not trying bring religion into this) made us all special. You must also understand that ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN AT ANY TIME,so never doubt anything,especially with yourself. When you understand that anything is possible then the windows of oppurtunity are endless for you. Try not to think negative,everything is good some thing are just better then others. "There is no such idea as failure,only lessons learned". If you ever doubt yourself think about how much you have accomplished in your life and think of where you want to go,doubtting yourself isnt going to help you get there. Then you will start to see what really matters in life,Family,your offspring to continue with your legacy.
 
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