"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Where to start? (mentally)

PersonalJesus

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I've begun on this journey of improving myself (and success with girls), but the first question is where do I start with my head? if you get what i mean. I've already started working on, working on clothes and looking good, getting hobbies. But where do I start with my mindsets? How do champions think? Where do I start?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You have to TRUELY understand that you are unique and unlike anyone else. You have to understand that there is no one person like you,God(not trying bring religion into this) made us all special. You must also understand that ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN AT ANY TIME,so never doubt anything,especially with yourself. When you understand that anything is possible then the windows of oppurtunity are endless for you. Try not to think negative,everything is good some thing are just better then others. "There is no such idea as failure,only lessons learned". If you ever doubt yourself think about how much you have accomplished in your life and think of where you want to go,doubtting yourself isnt going to help you get there. Then you will start to see what really matters in life,Family,your offspring to continue with your legacy.
 
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