"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Where to pull?

outplayed

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 15, 2009
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
I'm 19 and go to a community college so I still live with my parents. I can't take girls back to my house because my parents most definitely wouldn't allow me hooking up in their house. So where do I go? Any of you guys have this same problem of not being able to consistently F close because of nowhere to lead/isolate her except for my car?

I know the obvious answer is to move out but what if I can't afford that at this point in my life?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

NewGuy72

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2009
Messages
41
Reaction score
0
Are you sure your parents would have a problem with you bringing a girl over? I know my parents never had a problem with it. Just keep a low profile, and tell her to keep it quite a bit (I always seem to get the screamers).
 

Cinamon

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 18, 2009
Messages
427
Reaction score
7
Location
England
Ah, college days :) Half the fun was doing it in places where you could almost get caught.

This is a little embarassing to admit, but when i was at college I did it in:
Empty lecture theatre in the evening
An old derelict building (which is now the cities rugby grounds )
In the park
In his car on a field in the middle of nowhere
Cinema
at his friends house
in his parents bed, while they were away on holiday
In the site managers office at work
in the disabled toilets

When you are young and horny the location doesn't make that much of a difference. Just for the record more than half the places listed above were with the same guy :) We just had one of those relationships where we felt 'I want you and i want you now'!
 
Top