“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Where to meet high quality women for LTRs?

devilkingx2

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I have not tried online dating yet because I have heard so many bad things but is that my only option?
Unless you are really attractive or have a bachelor's of science in the Tinder app, you're going to compromise on both quality and hotness with your OLD matches.


I am having a hard time finding a high quality long term partner from game. I do a lot of nightgame but I have realized that the women there are not relationship material.
I have a theory that you're more likely to succeed with slvts than with regular girls in general. Unfortunately a quality girl is going to be less open to approach.

The best advice I can give you is to cold approach women in a place where quality women like to hang out. Maybe try volunteering or going to church.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I am a romantic at heart and feel empty without a committed partner tbh. I enjoyed the game and hookup thing for a little bit after my last breakup but now I really miss not having a significant other to share every moment with. All of my friends are also in committed relationships and super happy so seeing that makes me feel even worse about casual dating and hookup.
Just dont rush into anything. Be patient. It will be worth it.
 

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Not on swipe apps. Likely not in most nightlife venues either.
 

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Charity work is the best, followed by church. Neither are great overall, but we don't have good options.
Church participation is declining in younger age groups. If you go to weekend services in any Judeo-Christian religion, observe how many unattached women in their 20s/30s you see at the Mass/service. The number won't be impressive in most cases.

There's one megachurch (non-denominational Protestant) in my city that seems to have decent participation from 20s/early 30s people. I've actually run into a few active congregants from that megachurch doing other things.

Charity work isn't tied to church. Every single person hears the "volunteer more" advice at some point if they are single long enough. There's a thread on volunteering below. I've not actually volunteered. I have not found a cause that I have felt strongly enough about to volunteer. My primary areas of focus have been taking care of my own sexual needs with women and establishing my career. These areas take up a lot of time.

 
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