Hi everyone! I'm really curious about how focused each of us is in our lives.
Let's say your job was ****, so now you run your business and work 8 hours a day.
Let's say your social circle had some toxic elements, and you pushed them away and cut out contact with them, keeping only those who respect you and listen to you.
Let's say you have very little time available.
You're focused, you have financial goals, health goals, etc.
But how the heck do you meet quality women?
If there's one thing I've learned from the harsh law, it's that after 35, unless they're already in a relationship, met at parties, or by chance while running errands, you have basically a 1% chance of meeting someone.
Everyone will say you'll meet them while doing your activities: volunteering, hiking, fitness, etc.
But that's not the case. In fact, yif you have a job that you need to focus, which is not something like a photographer, who could actually met women during the process, but le'ts say is something like a office business.
Also, if you ever meet them, many of them are single too young, or are already in a relationship.
It's as if after 28, these women are all already very busy, and there's nothing good out there.
A friend of mine simply told me to stay in good contact with all married women (the ones you think are the good ones), and not to do stupid things like getting physical or doing anything else that would disrespect their relationship. Instead, keep them "close" to you, and if their relationship doesn't work out in the future, they'll branch out to you. They keep an eye.
(My friend's idea doesn't really convince me, but he does, and it worked when we were teenagers, but now I don't know.)
Pretty much everything.
What do you do?
Let's say your job was ****, so now you run your business and work 8 hours a day.
Let's say your social circle had some toxic elements, and you pushed them away and cut out contact with them, keeping only those who respect you and listen to you.
Let's say you have very little time available.
You're focused, you have financial goals, health goals, etc.
But how the heck do you meet quality women?
If there's one thing I've learned from the harsh law, it's that after 35, unless they're already in a relationship, met at parties, or by chance while running errands, you have basically a 1% chance of meeting someone.
Everyone will say you'll meet them while doing your activities: volunteering, hiking, fitness, etc.
But that's not the case. In fact, yif you have a job that you need to focus, which is not something like a photographer, who could actually met women during the process, but le'ts say is something like a office business.
Also, if you ever meet them, many of them are single too young, or are already in a relationship.
It's as if after 28, these women are all already very busy, and there's nothing good out there.
A friend of mine simply told me to stay in good contact with all married women (the ones you think are the good ones), and not to do stupid things like getting physical or doing anything else that would disrespect their relationship. Instead, keep them "close" to you, and if their relationship doesn't work out in the future, they'll branch out to you. They keep an eye.
(My friend's idea doesn't really convince me, but he does, and it worked when we were teenagers, but now I don't know.)
Pretty much everything.
What do you do?
