"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Where to Meet Girls?

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Hey,

I know its been a while, but school has ended for my Junior year and now Summer is here. I want to improve as much as possible this summer. Just recently, I got my first car (improves what I can do by a lot) and was wondering where I can go practice my game? What about going by myself/with friends? Pickups? Etc?

Also, I got a kind of off-topic question, but this relates overall to being an AFC. Since I was young, I have had OCD and while I have gotten rid of most of it except for the germaphobic part, there is still this other linguring part. When I was younger, I really got into video games and loved them (still do, but don't play them as much) and now going through puberty (thus really getting into girls), I have watched porn and stuff. On my computer that I built, I have gotten so OCD that after I would watch porn a few times, I would think that the computer wasn't "clean" and would wipe the hard drive and re-install Windows, then I would later do the same thing. Today, for example, I had this pretty good wallpaper of Megan Fox and replaced it with an abstract one partly because of my OCD.

Any tips on these topics?

Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Triple T

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Sorry but I'm not familiar with OCD
Is it when you are a "Neat" freak and are afraid of germs?

As for meeting the ladies...I usually go with my friends to the mall.
TONS of nice girls there and TONS of oppurtunities. If you fail...theres another one coming at you alreaady. :cool:

It also depends on your location. When I was on vacation on a beach I would meet some girls. I'd take out my volleyball, look for some girls and asked if they would like to start up a game. Pretty soon we had a full on game going with a crowd of people cheering. It was crazzy fuuuuun!! :D
And then we went for ice cream and chilled after

If you can get into bars...then that'd be a good spot as well.
 

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Outside of the bar. Nab some before they go inside.
 
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