"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where to Meet Girls?

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Hey,

I know its been a while, but school has ended for my Junior year and now Summer is here. I want to improve as much as possible this summer. Just recently, I got my first car (improves what I can do by a lot) and was wondering where I can go practice my game? What about going by myself/with friends? Pickups? Etc?

Also, I got a kind of off-topic question, but this relates overall to being an AFC. Since I was young, I have had OCD and while I have gotten rid of most of it except for the germaphobic part, there is still this other linguring part. When I was younger, I really got into video games and loved them (still do, but don't play them as much) and now going through puberty (thus really getting into girls), I have watched porn and stuff. On my computer that I built, I have gotten so OCD that after I would watch porn a few times, I would think that the computer wasn't "clean" and would wipe the hard drive and re-install Windows, then I would later do the same thing. Today, for example, I had this pretty good wallpaper of Megan Fox and replaced it with an abstract one partly because of my OCD.

Any tips on these topics?

Thanks!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Triple T

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Sorry but I'm not familiar with OCD
Is it when you are a "Neat" freak and are afraid of germs?

As for meeting the ladies...I usually go with my friends to the mall.
TONS of nice girls there and TONS of oppurtunities. If you fail...theres another one coming at you alreaady. :cool:

It also depends on your location. When I was on vacation on a beach I would meet some girls. I'd take out my volleyball, look for some girls and asked if they would like to start up a game. Pretty soon we had a full on game going with a crowd of people cheering. It was crazzy fuuuuun!! :D
And then we went for ice cream and chilled after

If you can get into bars...then that'd be a good spot as well.
 

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Outside of the bar. Nab some before they go inside.
 
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